How many of us envisaged a disney romance with the
horse-drawn carriage, rose petals and singing mice? I know i have & I'm
sure that if you delve deep into your forgotten memories you'll see that you
have too. All it takes is one love, one relationship, or one heartbreak to show
us how wrong we are.
Realistically speaking we couldn't handle those
"prince charming" types: A guy watching you sleep is creepy, if he
hears violins every time he sees you then he needs to check his mental state
& if he says you're his reason for breathing ask him to choose between you
& oxygen & notice how quickly that changes.
I know i sound a bit dramatic and like I'm
"anti-love" (I'm actually one of the most romantic people that you'll
ever meet) - but I'm just tired of wishing for a clichéd love that didn't,
doesn't & will not exist.
I want something real, something with substance. From the
morning breath to the silly fights over who's doing the dishes. I'd rather have
a guy who falls asleep before me instead of watching me sleep [yeah i don't get
the twilight 'love' (o_O)].
Love isn't all walks on the beach and candle light
dinners. It takes a lot of patience and understanding (and effort to stop
yourself from wanting to smack him over the head with the frying pan). It's
sometimes having to stop yourself from saying something to avoid a fight and
apologizing even when you're right. It's certainly not easy - but nothing
worthwhile ever is.
We need to stop trying to recreate these foolish
"love stories" & start creating our own. It won't be perfect
(white doves won't fly by every time he sees you) but at least it will be Real,
True, and hopefully Everlasting.
-Arlia Alli-
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