Sunday, 31 March 2019

Marriage secrets

_Secret 1_

Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only Allah does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his/her strength.

_Secret 2_

Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

_Secret 3_

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges.  Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

_Secret 4_

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

_Secret 5_

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:




Third party influence 



Lack of love 





Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

_Secret 6_

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages. 

_Secret 7_

Allah doesn't  give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and patience.

_Secret 8_

Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future.  Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. A husband can lose his good job or a wife may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.

_Secret 9_

Marriage is a contract. It is meant to be life long. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. Allah dislikes divorce.

_Secret 10_

Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.

*So let us pray for our marriages and ask Allah to help us where we are lacking in the marriage. Send to those you care about because  you never know who you may be helping. May Allah bless you all.*

Wake Up !!!!



Two fish were swimming when they saw a piece of meat dangling before them. The younger fish darted toward it with an open mouth. The older fish cried out, “Stop! You can’t see it, but there is a hook inside that meat. It is connected by an invisible line to a pole outside the water. There is a man holding the pole. If you eat the meat, the hook will catch in your jaw and the man will pull you out of the water. He will cut you open with a knife, roast you on a fire and eat you. Then he will throw your remains to his cat.”

The young fish stopped. The two of them swam away. But when the young fish was alone, he thought to himself, “Let me investigate for myself how accurate these claims are.”

He went back to the meat, swam around it, above and below it. He swam as far as he could in widening circles around the meat. After a long search, he said to himself, “I’ve looked far and wide, and I haven’t found any sign of a man, a pole, a knife, a fire or a cat. In fact, I’ve found no trace of anything outside this water we live in. These must just be stories.”

He went back to the meat and ate it. The hook caught in his jaw, he felt himself being yanked out of the water. He saw a pole, a man and a knife, but at that point his knowledge was useless.

MORAL: So is the message of the Noble Quran. Some of it is beyond our comprehension. We will realize its reality only when death strikes. 

May Almighty Allah Ta'ala grant us the ability to read, understand and live the message of the Noble Qur'an.... 


Friday, 29 March 2019

Black Seed (Klonji) Benefits

 1. Baldness and Hair Loss

Loss of hair could be either due to age or some other underlying conditions. People have reported to have improved the growth of hair using black seed oil.

Just pour some oil in your palm and rub both hands against each other. Massage then to the scalp, especially the bald areas.

2. Beard Growth

If you have a thin beard and wants to make it thick, black seed is the solution. Just take some and massage in to the beard. Make sure it reaches the roots.

3. Bee and Wasp Stings

When I was a child, I used to “to make the wasps and bees angry” by inserting thins sticks in the wall, naughty, any? I used to get stung and when it was on the face, I would not get out three days and stay at home. The reason that my face would be so swollen that I would become a good laughing stock for my friends. I did not know at the time the miracle of black seed

Boil the seeds in water and apply to the stings.

4. Cancer and Tumors

Crush fresh cloves of garlic and mix with honey and black seed or its oil. Take a teaspoon three times a day.

5. Cardiovascular

Mix half a teaspoon of the oil with warm water and drink before breakfast.

6. Radiant Skin and Face

Mix the oil with some olive oil and honey. Apply to face or skin and leave for 15 minutes. Wash with warm water. It makes the skin glow.

7. Chest Congestion

Take one teaspoon twice a day. If you mix it with honey, it works wonders.

8. Cough

Mix an equal amount of the oil with raw honey. Take a teaspoon of the mixture twice a day.

9. Diabetes

Mix the oil with raw or manuka honey. Take one teaspoon twice a day. Do not take sugar and other foods that cause diabetes.

10. Diarrhea

Put one teaspoon of the oil in one cup of yogurt and drink twice a day. If you add honey, it will add to the taste to make it yummy and heal you faster.

11. Earache

Take a few drops of olive and mix it with a few drops of black seed oil. Put three to five drops in the ear. Please note if you have perforated drum, ask your doctor.

12. Eye Disease and Vision

Carrots are known for making the eye sight better. Mix half a teaspoon of oil with one cup of carrot and drink.

13. Flue and Colds

Mix one teaspoon of honey with one teaspoon of black seed oil and take twice a day. For best results, use raw or local organic honey.

 14. Facial Paralysis

Boil the water and add one teaspoon of oil and inhale the fumes.

15. Nasal Congestion

Place only 3 drops in each nostril to ease the congestion

16. Gallstones

Take one tablespoon of black seed and mix it with honey and warm water. Drink twice a day. You can also mix half a cup of olive oil with a tablespoon of black seed and raw honey. Drink the solution on empty stomach before going to bed.

17. Liver Stones

Same as above.

18. Gas and Flatulence

Mix honey and black seed in equal amount and take first thing in the morning.

19. Hemorrhoids

Mix honey, black seed and oil in equal amount and drink. You can also apply the paste to the itching area.

20. Premature Gray Hair

Mix an equal amount of olive and black seed oil and massage in to the scalp. Wash with warm water after an hour.

21. Headaches and Migraines

Mix black seed oil and honey in equal proportion and eat twice a day. For quick result put a few drops in nostrils and rub on the temples.

22. High Blood Pressure

Boil water and add one teaspoon of the oil. Leave it until it is moderately warm and then drink. For best results, mix garlic with black seed and eat.

23. Hypertension

Take half a teaspoon in warm water and drink.

24. Boosting Immunity

Take one teaspoon of the oil twice a day for general well being.

25. Breast Feeding and Lactation

Mix honey and the oil in equal amount. Take one teaspoon every day.

 26. Boosting Memory

Take a half teaspoon of the oil with half a teaspoon of raw honey. Take twice a day.

 27. Moles

Make a paste of honey and black seed oil and apply to moles.

28. Mosquitoes

In hot countries, it is often a big problem especially at night. Put some black seed oil in the incense burner and enjoy a nice and sound sleep.

29. Mouth Infection

Take half a teaspoon and swish around in your mouth for 5 minutes.

30. Gingivitis

Do the same procedure as above.

31. Nose and Throat Conditions

Make a mixture of the oil with lemon juice and honey. Take twice a day.

 32. Back Pain

Rub the oil on the back before going to bed. Eat honey and black seed or its oil.

33. Muscular Pain

Apply the oil to the area where there is pain and massage gently for a few minutes.

34. Rheumatic Pains

Mix black seed and honey and eat daily in small amount. Rub the oil on the aching areas gently.

 35. Stomach Pain

Take a teaspoon of black seed with honey. Also mix some honey in a peppermint tea and sip it while it is lightly warm.

36. Tooth ache

Boil cider vinegar and black seed and rinse the mouth with the liquid. Repeat twice a day until the pain is gone.

37. Gum infection

Take some oil and rub them on the gums gently all rounds. Repeat twice a day.

38. Weight Loss

Some people use it for weight loss with great results. It boost the metabolic rate so you may burn more calories. Take 1 a teaspoon in the morning and another at night.

39. Asthma

Take one teaspoon mixed with one teaspoon of honey.

40. Eczema

Mix one teaspoon of oil with one tablespoon of manuka honey and one tablespoon of extra virgin olive oil. Apply the paste twice a day.

41. Bladder infection

One teaspoon of black seed or its oil with raw or manuka honey twice a day.

42. Infections

Crush two fresh garlic cloves and add one teaspoon of black seed with one tablespoon of honey. Eat twice a day. You can also apply it to external wounds. For external replace the seeds with oil.

43. Sore Throat

Mix one teaspoon with fresh lemon juice and honey. Take twice a day.

44. Cold and Flue

Take one teaspoon of oil before break fast.

45. Nasal Congestion

Put 3 drops in each nostril.

46. Chest congestion

Massage gently on the chest.

47. Hemorrhoids

Take one teaspoon twice a day. Mix honey and olive and apply the paste to the itching area.

48. Gas and flatulence

Take one teaspoon twice a day.

49. Toothache

Dip a cotton ball in the oil and place it on aching tooth.

50. Insomnia

Mix one teaspoon with one tablespoon of honey and eat before going to bed.`

51. Dry Mouth

To treat dry mouth with black seed oil, take a table spoon and swish around your mouth for one minute and the spit out. Do not rinse your mouth with water for 30 minutes. You may also swallow on teaspoon twice a day for great results.

Wednesday, 27 March 2019


๐Ÿ€ุจุณู… ุงู„ู„ู‡ ุงู„ุฑุญู…ู† ุงู„ุฑุญูŠู…๐Ÿ€ 

๏ทบ ♥̸̨͡๐Ÿƒ๏ทบ♥̸̨͡๐Ÿƒ๏ทบ

An engineer in a car manufacturing company designs a world class car. The CEO is impressed with the outcome & praises him a lot. 

While trying to bring out the car from the manufacturing area to the showroom, they realise that the car is 2 inches taller than the entrance.

The engineer felt bad that he didn't notice this before creating the car.

The CEO was confused on how to take it outside of the manufacturing area.

The painter said that they can bring out the car & there will be a few scratches on top of the car which could be touched up later on.

The engineer said that they can break the entrance, take the car out, & later re-do it.

The CEO was not convinced with any ideas & felt like it is a bad sign to break or scratch. 

A Watchman was observing all the drama & slowly approached the CEO. He wanted to give an idea if they had no problem. 

They wondered what this guy would tell them that the experts could not give.

The watchman said, "The car is only a few inches taller than the entrance so, simply release the air in the tyre, the height of the car will sink & can be easily taken out"...

Everyone clapped!!!


Don't analyse problems only from an expert point of view alone.

There is always a layman's outlook that gives an alternate solution at a given point of time...

Life issues are also the same....

Think Simply...

Do Simply..

Aะธฯ‘ Live Simply ... anything else puts a strain on our heart & soul.

because originally we are happy souls - we are all created as wondrous creations of As Salaam, the Most Peaceful.


Release some 'air' regularly... It could be our anger .... our disappointments... our egos... our confusions .. Do it in a dignified way never hurting others in the process.

In the end it's all about:

"Adjusting The Height" (lowering the ego attitude), 

making life as easy & uncomplicated ,

aะธฯ‘ going with the flow accepting events & experiences with calm certainity that ุงู„ู„َّู‡ُ Subhana wa Ta'ala is always in control..


"Life is beautiful & full of wonderful lessons " .... "Enjoy every moment" .... "Seasons change" ..... "Situations Change".....

People have been purposefully placed in our lives to carry out some sort of role in our life accomplishments. 

We should never look down on anyone & always take note that everybody is important.

"Don't let pride get to ur head, always humble urself. Being humble means recognizing that we are not on earth to see how important we can become, but to see how much difference we can make in the lives of others. Humility is not thinking less of urself, but thinking of urself less."


Monday, 25 March 2019

Prophetic Remedies


The Prophet(๏ทบ ) said that milk wipes away heat from the heart just as the finger wipes away sweat from the brow. It strengthens the back, increases the brain, augments intelligence, renews vision and drives away forgetfulness. 


Considered to be the best remedy for diarrhea when mixed in hot water. It is the food of foods, drink of drinks and drug of drugs. It is used for creating appetite, strengthening the stomach, eliminating phelgm, as a meat preservative, hair conditioner, eye salve and >mouthwash. It is extremely beneficial in the morning in warm water and is also a sunnah.

olive oil

excellent treatment for skin and hair, delays aging, treats inflammation of the stomach 


The Prophet(๏ทบ )said that mushroom is a good cure for the eyes, it also serves as a form of birthcontrol and arrests paralysis. 


The Prophet ๏ทบ was very fond of grapes, it purifies the blood, provides vigour and health, strengthens the kidneys and clears the bowels. >


The Prophet๏ทบ said that a house without dates has no food. Also to be eaten at the time of childbirth.


It is a fruit from paradise and a cure for piles. 


Good for fever in a soup form 


Melon contains 1000 blessings and 1000 mercies, The prophet ๏ทบ said "None of your women who are pregnant and eat of water melon will fail to produce off spring who are good in counternanace and good in character. >


it cleanses you of Satan and evil aspirations for 40 days. 


the Prophet ๏ทบ said the best drink in this world and the next is Water, when you are thirsty drink it by sips and not gulps, gulping produces sickness of the liver. So praise be to our beloved Nabi ๏ทบ who produced us with marvellousknowledge which dazzles the wisest minds.

Saturday, 23 March 2019



Sometimes some things are written in your fate. No matter how hard you may try to change them, they never change...

The crow and the parrot were both created ugly. The parrot protested and was made beautiful. However, the crow remained content with the will of its Creator. Today the parrot is in a cage and the crow flies free...

Behind each incident is so exquisite a wisdom that maybe you will never understand it.

Therefore ... 

Never ask "Why?" to the Creator.

Nine things will give you benefits everyday:

1.. ุชุฑูŠุฏ ุงู„ุณุนุงุฏู‡ = ุตู„ ุงู„ุตู„ุงุฉ ููŠ ูˆู‚ุชู‡ุง.

1..If you seek happiness: Offer salaah   on time.

2.. ุชุฑูŠุฏ ู†ูˆุฑ ุงู„ูˆุฌู‡ =  ุจู‚ูŠุงู… ุงู„ู„ูŠู„.

2..If you want light on your face:

Rise up for tahajjud in the night.

3.. ุชุฑูŠุฏ ุงู„ุทู…ุฆู†ูŠู†ุฉ = ุนู„ูŠูƒ ุจุชุฑุชูŠู„ ุงู„ู‚ุฑุขู†.

3..If you want tranquility and peace: Recite the Qur'an slowly and carefully.

4..ุชุฑูŠุฏ ุงู„ุตุญู‡ = ุนู„ูŠูƒ ุจุงู„ุตูŠุงู….

4..If you seek health: Fast

5.. ุชุฑูŠุฏ ุงู„ูุฑุฌ = ู„ุงุฒู… ุงู„ุฅุณุชุบูุงุฑ.

5..If you seek inner joy: Keep on with repentance.

6.. ุชุฑูŠุฏ ุฒูˆุงู„ ุงู„ู‡ู… = ู„ุงุฒู…


6..If you want to be free from sorrow: Keep on praying.

7..ุชุฑูŠุฏ ุฒูˆุงู„ ุงู„ุดุฏู‡ = ู‚ู„ ู„ุงุญูˆู„ ูˆู„ุง ู‚ูˆุฉ ุฅู„ุง ุจุงู„ู„ู‡

7..If you want violence to disappear, say: La hawla wa lรข quwwata illa billah.

8.. ุชุฑูŠุฏ ุงู„ุจุฑูƒู‡ = ุตู„ ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ู†ุจูŠ ูˆุงู„ู‡ ุงู„ุทูŠุจูŠู† ุงู„ุทุงู‡ุฑูŠู†.

8..If you seek abundant barakah: 

Recite praises and greetings (durood) to the Holy Prophet (ุตู„ู‰ ุฃู„ู„ู‡ ุนู„ูŠู‡ ูˆุณู„ู… ุนู„ู‰ ) and his virtuous family and companions.

9.. ุชุฑูŠุฏ ุญุณู†ุงุช ุจุฏูˆู† ุชุนุจ =

 ู„ุงุชุญุชูุธ ุจู‡ุง ุฃุฑุณู„ู‡ุง ู„ูŠู†ุชูุน ุจู‡ุง ูƒู„ ุงู„ุงุญุจู‡ 

ุณุจุญุงู† ุงู„ู„ู‡

ู…ู† ูƒุงู† ู…ุน ๏บ‚ู„ู„ู‡ ูƒุงู† ๏บ‚ู„ู„ู‡ ู…ุนู‡ 

ูˆู…ู† ูƒุงู† ูŠุญุจ ๏บ‚ู„ู„ู‡ ูƒุงู† ๏บ‚ู„ู€ู„ู‡ ูŠุญุจู‡

9..If you wish to do goodness without getting tired: Do not keep this message to yourself. Let your loved ones benefit from this too. 

Allah  is with those who are with Him and consider His commandments. 

Allah  loves those who love Him. 

ู‡ู„ ุชุนู„ِู… : 

ุนู†ุฏ ู‚ุฑุขุกุฉ ุขูŠุฉ ุงู„ูƒุฑุณูŠ ุจุนุฏ ูƒู„ ุตู„ุขุฉ

ูŠุตุจุญ ุจูŠู†ูƒ ูˆุจูŠู† ุงู„ุฌู†ู‡ ุงู„ู…ูˆุช ูู‚ุท

ุชุฐูƒูŠุฑ :ู„ุง ุชูƒุชู… ุนู„ู…ุงً ุฎูŠุฑุงً ุชุฌุฒู‰ ุจู‡


Do you know?

If you recite the Ayat al Kursi after every salaah, only Death will remain between you and the Paradise. 

Note: Never hide any knowledge for which you will be rewarded with goodness and auspiciousness.

ًุงุฌุนู„ูˆู‡ุง ุชู„ู ุงู„ุนุงู„ู…

Let this knowledge move around the world.


*ูกูคูคู goals*

11 Rajab 1440h

Saturday, 16 March 2019

Rules of life

1. Be adaptable.

2. Learn to say no. 

3. Patience is a virtue.

4. Hard work always pays off. 

5. Fail fast, fail early, fail often.

6. Stay away from toxic people. 

7. Giving is better than receiving.

8. Don’t let others opinions hold you back.

Wednesday, 13 March 2019

Life is full of surprises

No matter how much we plan and work towards a certain goal, a certain hope in mind... We forget, its all in Allah's hands

Tuesday, 12 March 2019

Victim of crime

Im not one to post personal issues but, i feel that sometimes its just gives hope and understanding to the many people out there that are experiencing similar turmoil.

Ive always been carefree, not tying my camel so to speak, living my life in full realisation thay Allah is my protector and ive had many incidents that can only be described  as miracles.

Last week Thurday driving home after a stressful day, with emotions all over the shore, i got to the intersection at after thensouthern freeway offramp where i was almost hijacked and then robbed of my belongings. With so many vehicles around me at peak time only one paramedic got off to assist and left, whilst a whole lot of black foreigners surrounded my car and tried to calm me down and move my car off the intersection.

They stayed with me until the cops came. 

There was another indian guy that approached me saying he lived on the street and he would try to find my stuff and he took my number down.

The next day he called and said he found some of my stuff, property keys, my mums id nd my drivers licence. 

The following day he called to say be had my diary ans a booklet and my receipts. 

He wanted much more compensation than i had offered him and i have not received anY other contact from him.

Im the heat of the moment, i. All i could remember is calling a friend, who calmed me down and took the lead in the situation. 

Pls ladies be vigilant of your surroundings.

Dont carry your original id ams drivers licence, rather carry cerrified copies instead. 

The headaches in replacing docs at a time when you are just losing your bearings is just not your normal cup of tea. 

As traumatic the situatuon was, I made shukar that Allah kept me safe and possibly saved me from something worse. 

Sunday, 10 March 2019




People think divorcees are the worst of people yet they forget that even the daughters of the sahaba were divorced by her husband, a sahabi, who was promised jannah, for being too harsh.

Was she ridiculed or ostracized? No!

Why then do we do it to our sisters?

 Allah swt has made divorce a solution NOT a punishment.

The mother of the believers Khadija (ra) was married twice and widowed both times; she had 3 children before she married RasulAllah (sallilahu alayhi wa sallam), were they seen as a burden? NO! They lived with them and were raised by Rasulullah (sallilahu alayhi wa sallam).

To the women wanting to flee abusive marriages there is NO evidence from the Qur'an or sunnah that says a woman must stay even when she is suffering abuse.

Don't stress if you are divorced thinking you won't remarry. 

Men are supposed to compliment you not be an added stress!

This poisonous thinking is cultural NOT Islamic. 

The women of the past would be approached for marriage AS SOON AS their iddat was up. 

RasulAllah (sallilahu alayhi wa sallam's) own daughters were divorcees (they were married to the sons of Abu Lahab)

 If it was always the woman's fault then why were they referred to as 'light' when they married Uthman Ibn Affan?! 

He was known as 'the possessor of the two lights' the "lights" being Ruqqayah and Umm Kulthum (Radiallahu Anhuma).

Please share this and raise awareness about the true beauty of Islam and not the cultural version...♡

Sunday, 3 March 2019


"I destroy homes, tear families apart - take your children, and that's just the start.

I'm more costly than diamonds, more costly than gold - the sorrow I bring is a sight to behold.

And if you need me, remember I'm easily found.

I live all around you, in schools and in town.

I live with the rich, I live with the poor, I live down the street, and maybe next door.

My power is awesome - try me you'll see.

But if you do, you may never break free.

Just try me once and I might let you go, but try me twice, and I'll own your soul.

When I possess you, you'll steal and you'll lie.

You'll do what you have to just to get high.

The crimes you'll commit, for my narcotic charms, will be worth the pleasure you'll feel in your arms.

You'll lie to your mother; you'll steal from your dad.

When you see their tears, you should feel sad.

But you'll forget your morals and how you were raised.

I'll be your conscience, I'll teach you my ways.

I take kids from parents, and parents from kids, I turn people from God, and separate from friends.

I'll take everything from you, your looks and your pride, I'll be with you always, right by your side.

You'll give up everything - your family, your home, your friends, your money, then you'll be alone.

I'll take and I'll take, till you have nothing more to give.

When I'm finished with you you'll be lucky to live.

If you try me be warned this is no game.  

If given the chance, I'll drive you insane.

I'll ravish your body,  I'll control your mind.

I'll own you completely; your soul will be mine.

The nightmares I'll give you while lying in bed.

The voices you'll hear from inside your head.

The sweats, the shakes, the visions you'll see.

I want you to know, these are all gifts from me.

But then it's too late, and you'll know in your heart, that you are mine, and we shall not part.

You'll regret that you tried me, they always do.

But you came to me, not I to you.

You knew this would happen. 

Many times you were told, but you challenged my power, and chose to be bold.

You could have said no, and just walked away.

If you could live that day over, now what would you say?

I'll be your master; you will be my slave.

I'll even go with you, when you go to your grave.

Now that you have met me, what will you do?

Will you try me or not? 

Its all up to you.

I can bring you more misery than words can tell.

Come take my hand, let me lead you to hell."